TW/CN : talk of suicide
ON 30th August 2014, I started a ‘note’ on Facebook. On it were links, prove that this world was horrible. The list started at #543 and counted downwards. I don’t know why I chose 543, and I never had a plan for what would happen after it counted down to 1. I no longer update the list, but the intention of that list was a rolling suicide note. If I ever did do the deed and killed myself, that list was the reasons why. It was more complicated than that of course, and my mental health was shit at the time due to childhood psychological trauma.. but because ‘notes’ on facebook don’t keep very well and are hard to search and archive, I am now moving this here.
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Reasons I think this world is a lost cause. A horrible place full of suffering. Reasons I do not ever want to have my own children. To bring innocent new lives into this world will be to increase the amount of suffering already here.
I volunteer. I give time up to try to make this world a slightly better place. I aim to foster older children someday, or at least spend a significant amount of my time supporting them. The ones who have been raped, abused, exploited. The ones from broken homes, with nowhere to go. I want to show young people who have never been loved, who grew up believing no one will ever love them, that I do. I love them. That they are worthy.
Edit: And in the Guardian on 31/8/2014… Maybe THIS is the reason I feel I need a list of reasons : http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/aug/31/jennifer-aniston-childess-women-judged-unfairly
- Reason #543 – http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/08/140818-elephants-africa-poaching-cites-census/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Social&utm_content=link_fb20140818news-elepoach&utm_campaign=Content/&sf4226207=1
- Reason #542 – http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-politics/10958585/Feminist-knickers-show-off-everything-thats-wrong-with-Twitter-feminism.html
- Reason #541 – http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/08/140820-extinction-crows-penguins-dinosaurs-asteroid-sydney-booktalk/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Social&utm_content=link_fb20140821news-booktalk&utm_campaign=Content&sf4263473=1
- Reason #540 – http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2014/08/140819-monarch-butterfly-milkweed-environment-ecology-science/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Social&utm_content=link_fb20140819news-monarcbutter&utm_campaign=Content&sf4240561=1
- Reason #539 – http://stavvers.wordpress.com/2014/08/27/a-brief-overview-of-everything-thats-wrong-with-that-anti-rape-nail-polish/
- Reason #538 – http://www.london24.com/news/crime/woman_punched_in_face_at_notting_hill_carnival_for_telling_man_not_to_grope_her_1_3746402?utm_content=buffer13709&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer
- Reason #537 – http://m.mic.com/articles/97178/anti-abortion-activists-have-a-big-problem-with-the-ice-bucket-challenge
- Reason #536 – http://www.theverge.com/2014/8/27/6075179/anita-sarkeesian-says-she-was-driven-out-of-house-by-threats
- Reason #535 – http://www.alternet.org/media/most-depressing-discovery-about-brain-ever
- Reason #534 – http://www.fastcompany.com/3034895/strong-female-lead/the-one-word-men-never-see-in-their-performance-reviews
- Reason #533 – http://www.katebelgrave.com/2014/08/london-evicts-women-and-children-first-thanks/
- Reason #532 – http://solitarywatch.com/2014/08/07/transgender-women-in-new-york-state-prisons-face-solitary-confinement-and-sexual-assault/
- Reason #531 – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/01/if-you-click-on-jennifer-lawrences-naked-pictures-youre-perpetuating-her-abuse
- Reason #530 – http://www.newrepublic.com/article/119239/transgender-people-can-explain-why-women-dont-advance-work
- Reason #529 – when girls in need of compassion are treated as criminals..
http://reason.com/blog/2014/09/03/fetus-in-bathroom-call-in-the-helicopter - Reason #528 – because people actually believe this..
http://assholeoftheday.us/post/96563468625/ceelo-green-asshole-of-the-day-for-september-3 - Reason #527 – http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/09/03/anonib_nude_photo_site_where_hackers_and_users_treat_women_as_property.html
- Reason #526 – http://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanhatesthis/meet-the-women-you-call-when-your-most-intimate-photos-wind?bftw=main&s=mobile#3bs85bx
- Reason #525 – http://time.com/3305466/male-female-harassment-online/
- Reason #524 – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/11/fat-shaming-slim-sanctimonious-cause-obesity-crisis
- Reason #523 – http://mic.com/articles/98850/rape-victim-allegedly-denied-entrance-to-restaurant-for-being-rape-victim
- Reason #522 – the fact that this doesn’t get as much coverage as the MH disasters – http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/sep/15/migrant-boat-capsizes-egypt-malta-traffickers
- Reason #521 – the girls. The poor girls. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5791622
- Reason #520 – http://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.rollingstone.com%2Fculture%2Ffeatures%2Fthe-forsaken-a-rising-number-of-homeless-gay-teens-are-being-cast-out-by-religious-families-20140903&h=2AQEiulgN&enc=AZNSD3Ck-H-RG-nqn9BHTF36OvwK2TuJlBp_JqqfleWOh83T91w4Vzanz8d_aFicKBuADQCFoX6VOsvs_AWEbwLM0c_xrhExLK9hmnp51eg2ThNMiO5FR3x-A1lzYfpHbHDs6FUf-yYyfTaCBCA2U8KK&s=1
- Reason #519 – When large corperations STILL care more about image and policy than about the marginalised minority – http://www.thegailygrind.com/2014/09/18/facebook-warns-drag-queens-will-delete-every-profile-two-weeks/#.VBum9W8YQtI.facebook
- Reason #518 – Because human overpopulation is a real problem… I want to help the problem, not contribute to it – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_overpopulation
- Reason #517 – http://www.alternet.org/belief/how-playing-good-christian-housewife-almost-killed-me?page=0%2C2&paging=off¤t_page=1#bookmark
- Reason #516 – http://www.newstatesman.com/voices/2014/09/i-was-raped-when-i-was-drunk-i-was-14-do-you-believe-me-richard-dawkins
- Reason #515 – Because mass media outlets care more about moral judgements.. than about the fact there is a serial killer out there… and the public let them.. – http://www.ebony.com/news-views/black-teen-girls-killed-but-do-you-care-403#ixzz3DzVjK123
- Reason #514 – http://www.alternet.org/education/high-school-students-protest-slut-shaming-dress-codes-mass-walkouts
- Reason #513 – http://www.buzzfeed.com/jtes/a-transgender-woman-says-she-was-locked-in-a-cell-with-her-r#42my8b0
- Reason #512 – http://www.buzzfeed.com/jtes/a-transgender-woman-says-she-was-locked-in-a-cell-with-her-r#42my8b0
- Reason #511 – http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/26/sexual-activity-bullying-study_n_5877168.html?&ncid=tweetlnkushpmg00000067
- Reason #510 – http://poweredbygirl.org/blog/tag/srenow/
- Reason #509 – When they found money for bombs… but not for spare bedrooms… or #bringbackourgirls, or ebola… http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/sep/26/isis-iraq-uk-air-strikes-commons-vote-david-cameron
- Reason #508 – http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/09/pamphlet-shows-parents-how-to-teach-kids-about-homosexuality-without-turning-them-gay/
- Reason #507 – http://www.tabletmag.com/scroll/185506/orthodox-man-refuses-to-sit-next-to-feminist-activist-on-airplane
- Reason #506 – http://www.buzzfeed.com/alexcampbell/how-the-law-turns-battered-women-into-criminals?s=mobile#2alnggh
- Reason #505 – https://themuslimissue.wordpress.com/2013/10/14/punishing-gays-rectums-are-glued-shut-and-they-are-force-fed-petrol-and-set-alight/
- Reason #504 – I don’t know whether to feel angry or sad. I just feel sad. http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/10/nc-pastor-comes-unglued-over-coming-gay-weddings-you-think-ebola-is-bad-now-just-wait/
- Reason #503 – Because people choose “god” over good people… again.. and again.. and again. – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/oct/18/lahore-high-court-asia-bibi-death-penalty
- Reason #502 – Because I do not want to bring children into a world where slutshaming exists – https://fbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xfa1/v/t1.0-9/10609607_586522128143070_8465817082543088629_n.jpg?oh=c632866520d8c303d8e44dbc62a42439&oe=54AB4DE4&__gda__=1424747730_2f4077cf1abd9d356651209578ab9f5e
- Reason #501 – Because slavery still exists. – http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-29673120
- Reason #500 – We’re slowly destroying the oceans – http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-29631332
- Reason #499 – the people who are guilty are the church. They KNEW their words had power, and they abused it. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6034256
- Reason #498 – Guns against mental health.. Sighs.. http://thefreethoughtproject.com/call-suicide-prevention-hotline-killed-swat-team/
- Reason #497 – We should be able to trust the police… http://m.vice.com/read/two-weeks-after-newfoundlands-alleged-gang-rapes-still-no-investigation-heres-why-932
- Reason #496 – Anti-science idiots… they all deserve to die of measles… http://www.iflscience.com/health-and-medicine/one-map-sums-damage-caused-anti-vaccination-movement
- Reason #495 – what world is it where something she did 50 years ago is more important that the entire 50 years after? http://www.theguardian.com/film/2014/oct/22/73-year-old-teacher-dismissed-after-softcore-porn-past-comes-to-light
- Reason #494 – These men… just… no words… http://www.unslutproject.com/blog/no-charges-laid-against-men-who-bragged-on-video-about-raping-underage-girls
- Reason #493 – Where the poor are forced to steal – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/oct/27/todays-britain-poor-forced-steal-food-banks?CMP=share_btn_fb
- Reason #492 – http://metro.co.uk/2014/11/11/drunk-girl-in-public-prank-will-make-you-lose-faith-in-humanity-4943330/
- Reason #491 – http://blogs.reuters.com/great-debate/2014/11/10/is-saying-hello-sexual-harassment/
- Reason #490 – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/oct/03/-sp-rape-bullying-rehteaeh-parsons-audrie-pott-families
- Reason #489 – http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/sexual-surveillance-of-women-is-a-consequence-of-conservative-norms_b_6141032.html?utm_hp_ref=tw
- Reason #488 – http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/11/13/how-a-vicious-cycle-of-skepticism-keeps-cops-from-treating-rape-seriously/?Post+generic=%3Ftid%3Dsm_twitter_washingtonpost
- Reason #487 – http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/nov/21/bill-cosby-rape-accusers-women-stories?CMP=share_btn_tw
- Reason #486 – http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2014/nov/21/police-rubber-bullets-teargas-ferguson-protests
- Reason #485 – http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/nov/21/us-abortion-doctors-speak-40-years
- Reason #484 – because witch hunts still exist, just under a different name – http://www.nswp.org/news-story/woman-outed-greece’s-sex-worker-crackdown-has-committed-suicide
- Reason #483 – humankind will destroy itself… starting with these idiots – http://www.cbc.ca/…/ep…/2014-2015/vaccines-shot-of-confusion
- Reason #482 – http://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/muslim-doctor-killed-himself-after-his-mother-told-him-to-seek-a-cure-for-being-gay-9905320.html
- Reason #481 – Religion as a means for misogynists to control women – It isn’t about ethics or purity or any of that shit.. it’s just power and control http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/nation/2014/12/05/womens-tight-pants-sprayed-with-paint-cut-in-aceh/
- Reason #480 – Scams, scams and more scams.. Religon… gah… – http://www.theguardian.com/society/2002/mar/03/lifeandhealth.foodanddrink
- Reason #479 – http://jezebel.com/trans-teen-dies-by-suicide-leaves-tumblr-note-theres-1676351625
- Reason #478 – http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/03/benefits-sanctions-leading-suicides-dwp-depression
- Reason #477 – http://www.dailykos.com/story/2015/01/19/1358721/-Young-Woman-Serving-30-Years-For-A-Miscarriage-Receives-No-Pardon#
- Reason #476 – http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2922243/Hunted-like-animals-sold-families-75-000-Tanzania-s-albinos-hacked-apart-witchdoctors-believe-body-parts-bring-luck-sick-trade-fuelled-country-s-elite.html?ito=social-facebook
- Reason #475 – http://www.thejournal.ie/colaiste-eoin-stillorgan-homophobia-workshop-1905500-Jan2015/
- Reason #474 – http://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/mar/01/racism-science-human-genomes-darwin?CMP=fb_gu
- Reason #473 – http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/apr/14/anniversary-boko-haram-kidnapping-chibok-schoolgirls
- Reason #472 – http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/apr/14/kenya-garissa-dadaab-scapegoat-al-shabaab
- Reason #471 – http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/04/14/trans-man-fired-for-non-compliant-gender/
- Reason #470 – http://edition.cnn.com/2015/04/07/asia/afghanistan-gulnaz-rape-marriage/index.html
- Reason #469 – http://edition.cnn.com/2015/03/16/opinions/schreiner-india-rape/index.html
- Reason #468 – https://richarddawkins.net/2015/04/pregnant-jehovahs-witness-decision-to-refuse-treatment-harrowing-for-hospital-staff-after-mother-and-baby-die/
- Reason #467 – http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/04/13/opinion/the-error-of-fetal-homicide-laws.html?referrer&_r=0
- Reason #466 – http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/former-police-officer-mikhail-popkov-jailed-for-life-for-murdering-22-women/story-fnq2o7dd-1227185909326
- Reason #465 – http://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/there-emergency-mediterranean-and-all-europe-needs-respond-it?utm_source=TWITTER&utm_medium=Social&utm_content=20150420183200&utm_campaign=Refugees_migrants
- Reason #464 – http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3054222/Images-transgender-prisoner-face-pulverized-police-stripped-shaved-head-spark-outrage-Brazil.html
- Reason #463 – “a woman’s body is to be used by her husband, and that when a man marries a woman, there is no need at all for him to get consent. ” http://m.themalaymailonline.com/opinion/shafiqah-othman-hamzah/article/i-am-a-woman-and-i-am-afraid
Reasons I hate this world and most of the humans in it. Reasons I might some day use to justify my suicide.