Why? #4 – August 2017

According to some people, family mainly – I am a very complicated person and it is very difficult to understand me.  So I keep trying to explain myself to them, but often that is very very difficult, especially when it isn’t ME they are asking me to explain, but a view I have of something else.  If it is of something else, often that something (or someone) else would be better at explaining it than I do.  I do put some effort into sharing what I read with them, often through facebook shares.  Unfortunately this gets lost in the scrolling labyrinthe which facebook is and they get information fatigue.  The problem of ‘please explain why you think X of Y’ still stands though, so here I will keep a curated list of things I read which I feel explains concepts of my world well.

I first named this “things worth reading”, but decided that implied I was assuming that anyone reading this would find the same things worth reading than I did.  So I played with a few more ideas and I came up with Why?  This can be short for several questions.  Among them are – Why I think the way I do.  Why I have the views I do, and ultimately why I said what I said about topic x, issue y or problem z.

Most women you know are angry – and that’s alright

Why you can’t teach a 6 year old to be grateful

.I didn’t realise I could be bisexual until I was 21Yep, this was me. I did not realise I was bisexual until I was 23. Until that time I exclusively tried to like guys, kissed guys, even dated guys… and it wasn’t until I was actually IN a long-term, stable, intimate relationship with a man that we had the conversation of ‘do you think you could like a guy… cause I think I can like a girl… and would be quite curious to try going out with a girl actually’ I had crushes on gals long before i had crushes on guys… but I never knew they were crushes…. that just wasn’t possible, wasn’t allowed, so it wasn’t even considered.

73 year old, doing sex work to pay for son’s kidney transplant – arrested & earnings confiscated.. Is this the world we want to live in?

https://amp.theguardian.com/uk/2013/apr/28/immigration-impact-crime

 

 

 

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Why.. #2? June 2017

The history of WHY

Listening to Shame – Ted Talk by Brene Brown

The Cause of Addiction – It’s not what you think

I don’t support everything Simon Sinek says in this next one… but I still found the first 3/4 pretty interesting and educational.  Much food for thought.  The first minute or so is intentionally provocative, so watch past that before you decide the whole video isn’t for you!   Millennials in the Workplace

10 reasons to stop cotton wool parenting

The Difference between Broke and Poor

How to Raise a Feminist Son

Is slavery still legal in modern day America?

We need to talk about Diane Abbott

Alphabet soup?

Dear friends, I love you, but please stop offering to be my therapist

This next one is for my estranged mother…. Ma… will these two men go to hell to just for being gay?  BBC Stories – Garry & Kyle

And this next one is for my sister(1), who never has anything good to say about people with BPD   Why are people with BPD so manipulative. (hint… they’re not really)

This one is for anyone who thinks that it is poor people’s fault that they are poor. A story on poverty